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Bullies

Deal with bullying quickly and easily


Bullying can ruin your life, but there ARE ways to deal with it. You don’t have to put up with it. Get tools and techniques here to help you deal with the bullies in your life. In this section you will find easy to use tools that you can implement straight away and will help you to deal with the bullies in your life, or to help others who are being bullied.

Don’t leave it, stop bullying now


The longer you leave it, the worse it gets, so find some ways to stop bullying now right here. If they don’t work, you get your money back.

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"How to Deal with Bullies" by Nancy Slessenger - UPDATED

The downloadable eBook packed full of practical tips, tools & techniques that you can use to stop bullying.


This book has been updated this year after some requests from our readers who wanted a section on “malicious bullying”.

This is the kind of bullying where a person or people get together and deliberately bully someone else.

I was horrified to hear of one particularly vicious case involving a group of quite senior managers. These things are rare, however, it’s very useful to know how to recognize them and how to deal with them if you are ever unfortunate enough to be on the receiving end.

 

The Quick Guide to Dealing with Difficult People

101 Tips & Techniques by Nancy Slessenger

Dealing with difficult behaviours from colleagues and customers can make your life hell

 

Difficult colleagues

 

  • Do you have to deal with negative people who sap all your energy?
  • Do you work with annoying nit-pickers?

Difficult customers

  • Do you have customers who try to bully you or throw temper tantrums?
  • Do you work with people who just can’t make up their minds and then change them anyway?

If you answered ‘yes’ to any of these questions, this booklet is for you.
In this straightforward easy-to-follow booklet you will discover:

  • What to look out for
  • Tools that work for dealing with bullying
  • Surprising ways to deal with negative people
  • Simple steps to get indecisive people to make decisions and stick to them
  • Easy ways to deal with nit-pickers
  • Straightforward techniques for insensitive, thick-skinned behaviour
  • What to stop doing yourself that might be making it worse

 

 

 

Difficult People Made Easy e-book chapter Bullies

 

34 pages packed with real life examples of what to do and how to do it including

  • How to handle the stress caused by bullying
  • The behaviours that allow others to bully you - what you are doing that makes it worse and how to stop
  • What happens in your head when you are being bullied and what do to about it
  • How to grasp the nettle - how to feel confident about what you are going to do so that you really do it
  • Why bullies need help to grow up - what's going on in their heads. Understanding them helps you to resolve the situation.
  • How to deal with tempter tantrums
  • How bullies think and why they think like this
  • How you need to change your thinking to deal with them
  • Why they don’t know what they’re doing - it may sound unbelievable, but they don't
  • The key to understanding what they are doing.

Once you understand this, the rest is easy. You will have the tools to deal with whoever is bullying you now and stop it ever happening again. You will recognise the signs so you can take action early and you will know how to change your own behaviour so you are no longer a victim.